What happens when opposite sex meet in public ? What do you think of them..? Yes,you guessed it right..Gossiping about them,making masaledar newz,spreading rumours of they seeing each other,talks such as "She used to be shy at character,but look her now,how firmly she is holding his hand.."These are the thoughts that first strikes our minds..As soon as one raeches home,he/she puts aside their imp works nd start phoning their friends,colleages,whomsoever they find and start discussing about the latest hot topic of dem seeing each other and pass their time..Then in the later stage,they feel guilty as to why they dis this?They then start realizing that publicizing their personal life was none of their business..They then start asking themselves the WHAT IF questions..
WHAT IF there was nothing cooking b/w them?WHAT IF they would have been just friends?WHAT IF they were just cousins?WHAT IF the same thing would have happened to me?
This is not our problem,the company we keep,the society we live in,the surrounding atmosphere are all resposible for our narrow-minded approach..This approach jus exihibits our shitty character,our inner soul,inner human being..I can still recollect one sentence that one mam had told to me in my early days of colledge.It goes like this:-"Whenever a boy and a girl talk on phone,or exchange notes,or meet in public ,people tend to take this relationship as a BF/GF relationship.I would jus call such people'sthinking as "BOHAT HI CHOTI SOCH HE"..and i firlmy agree with it..
So next time guyz and girls when you find a girl and a boy talking or even walking together,just askself one question."KYA MERI ITNI CHOTI SOCH HE?"..If ur inner soul reply YES,then you are free to go ahead with your thoughts and if NO,then you are doing a great deal ofgood to yourself,to your society and ofcourse to them(the ones meeting in public)..
 
Very thoughtful article Murtuza. Keep it up. Oh and I would just like to add one thing to your post:
ReplyDeleteI met my age-old friend after a looooooong time. Gosh, was I happy to see him!! We hugged as if we never wanted to let go. All our past memories flashed right in front of us like a Yash-Raj flashback. We had grown up together but the difference in our choices of education had caused us to drift apart, but now here he was and we were friends again, best friends!!
We'd been muted ever since we met, we were just so happy but just as we let go of each other, the first words that came out of his mouth in 5 years were: "Kya saale, girlfriend banayi?"
Dude great!!! mast likha hai yaar!!!! jordaar...keep it up.....very thoughtful....
ReplyDeletedamn good murtuza....ekdam sahi likha he ..............its very nice and true tooo...
ReplyDeleteThanx Everyone..
ReplyDelete@Arastu:- i also face the same thng..the first thng that is asked to me is not whether "u r fine or not",but about the bhabhi whether "c is allright or not"..
ReplyDeletemurtuza, i tnk its true upto sm extent, bt the thinkin of ppl is changing gradually. bt v hv still a vry long way to go b4 v create a cmplt broadminded society. bt ssly a vry good point, nd i lovd tht last line, "KYA MERI SOCH ITNI CHHOTI HEIN??" d bst 1.. lovd it..
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