Friday, July 2, 2010

PHYSICAL v/s Virtual Emotions

What actually are emotions?The feelling that directly comes from heart(let it be a blessing or a curse).Even when one feels happy he shows his emotions and he also dilevers the sameduring bad times.But now,PHYSICAL emotns hardly stand a chance in todays VIRTUAL world(the world of social networking)..Today we could hardly rejoice the feeling of being alone,being with someone special. Formerly we used to enjoy the feeling of being alone(thogh sad but we used to feel thatloneliness),but nowadays with social networking sites oll over,we hardly enjoy this feeling of being left alone..Someone has rightly said that "TO KNOW MORE ABOUT YOURSELF,TRY TO BE ALONe"..Nowadays people do miss hugs from friends,family,relatives,soulmates as this is too being overtakenby virtual world..We do miss silly fights with our close ones,may be it for getting seatbeside the best lookin girl in group,may be it for not being appreciated for his new hairdo or may be itfor paying 10 rs more than rest of the guyz..All this seem to have vanished from our day to day lives..Today mostly all emotions get fitted into mere space of 3 characters..Smiling,crying,frowning,etc could be shown with smileys available..Nowdays people tend to spend more time in checking their "News Feeds" containing nothingbut craps like"Hey everyone,I am no longer single,my status says that i am watching DDLJ and loving it,I wrote on XYZ's wall at 1:00 am,MR ABC uploaded 20 new photos of his,I had dhosa after ssssooooooooo lllooooooonnnnngggggg,I cooked biryani today,I am high on fever,tonight spain v/s portugal do wach it,roger out of wimbledonetc etc.."cmon man,where this will end!!..Instead of spending precious hours reading useless stuff on wall,do spend this hours withyour friends,relatives,ur family..Try to remain in touch physically and not virtually..Instead of getting up in the morning and checking your updates,do spend some quality timewith your mom..Have a word with her..Tell her how beautiful she looks today,tell her about your plans for today,and i bet you would get a more satisfactory feeling than checking your updates..Try it GUYZ.. Thats why my title of the blog has Al capital letters for physical emotions and not for virtual(answer you all know).

4 comments:

  1. Very thoughtful and absolutely correct Murtuza. On Facebook, people lead a virtual existence in which they pretend to be everything they can never be in the real world. Most of the people there are wannabes. The moment they logout of Facebook and step outside in the real world, they'll realise actually how many dis'likes' and sarcastic 'comments' they get.

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  2. Yeah Exactly..Thats what i really wanted to convey..Thats why i stayed away from fb for 10 long dayz..Wanted to prove myself rite that i can too survive withot this imaginary world..And i actually did it..

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  3. Well Murtuza,what you've written is very very true....This i felt 2 days back when my PC was not wrking,and i sat and saw some video songs on tv...which made me nostalgic and reminded me of beautiful days in past....And wen i thought,i found dat the world aprt from FB is also gr8!! since some days i m addicted to fb as i dnt have much to do...So i got addicted to it....
    Well written....very thoughtful.... :) keep writing...

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  4. nice.. bt evrythn hs pros and cons.. its u who shd knw tht whn u need to restrict yourself.. i agree to evry point u raised hr, tht v live in a virtual world, bt jst thnk hw all dis hs helpd us in bein in cntct wid our distant frns nd relatives..evry coin hs 2 sides..

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