An EVENING to remember

I was all alone in the house.Thought of doing something unusual.Multiple thoughts came into my mind that day,like turning on the music system and dancing on the beats of it,having a nap,connecting to friends on FB,seeing some idiot daily soaps or
movies on "IDIOT-BOX",calling friends home and having a blast,calling g.f and gossiping for hours,etc,etc..But one thought that deeply penetrated my mind,was to go out,and try to connect with the external world..Without spending a tittle of time,I got up from my bed,turned off the light and fan,locked the door and headed off to my destination(Destination which for me was to connect to stranger's soul).Took the lift and as soon as i reached out of my building,had already got connected with my watchman's kids..He had two kids,a boy named Sharukh and a girl named Sania..Their name truely justified their dreams.Sharukh wished a cool funky,fashionable pair of glasses as that of KING KHAN,while Sania wished of having a nice strong Tennis Racket..But the poor condition of watchman had forced their kids to find happiness with toys,and cycling around..A PITY scenario..Is'nt it?But still i learnt something..May be we all are too greddy creatures who keep on demanding materialistic things from GOD..I have seen many of my colleagues who keep on changing their mobile phones in a period of six months,changing their bikes yearly.I think that day is not far away when you will be seeing people changing their g.f's/b.f's every quater(Lol)..

Then i moved ahead.Came out from our society and nearby there was a jhopda..It was 7 pm.Saw an old lady, making chapatis for her husband who was to return home after his long day's labour work..No electricity at her house but still that willingness of
her to feed her tireful husband said it all..Such dedication to HOUSEHOLD DUTY and FAMILY gets rarely be seen..This was what i told to myself..May be,i learnt a lesson there by itself..A lesson which we all must learn..A lesson of doing things with complete dedication..While we start putting things in their place,we should bring together the energies of three main entities : Heart , Mind , Soul..
Thats when the work gets done at its best..From then on i walked miles with my face lit up with smiles..

On my way back,saw that same old lady with her family,sleeping under the shade of a Tree..Wish we all had such sound sleep as that of that family..
Wish we all had the heart like that of Watchman's kids who know how to enjoy themselves to the maximum,with the minimum things in hand..

I returned home around 9 pm bringing with me such lovely memories that i will cherish throughout my life..Went to bed and in no time was fast asleep..Morning when i woke up,I told to myself "I also enjoyed the same Sound Sleep as that of an OLD LADY"..I then thanked myself for choosing this out of the blue idea i.e "Connecting to external world's soul"..

PHYSICAL v/s Virtual Emotions

What actually are emotions?The feelling that directly comes from heart(let it be a blessing or a curse).Even when one feels happy he shows his emotions and he also dilevers the sameduring bad times.But now,PHYSICAL emotns hardly stand a chance in todays VIRTUAL world(the world of social networking)..Today we could hardly rejoice the feeling of being alone,being with someone special. Formerly we used to enjoy the feeling of being alone(thogh sad but we used to feel thatloneliness),but nowadays with social networking sites oll over,we hardly enjoy this feeling of being left alone..Someone has rightly said that "TO KNOW MORE ABOUT YOURSELF,TRY TO BE ALONe"..Nowadays people do miss hugs from friends,family,relatives,soulmates as this is too being overtakenby virtual world..We do miss silly fights with our close ones,may be it for getting seatbeside the best lookin girl in group,may be it for not being appreciated for his new hairdo or may be itfor paying 10 rs more than rest of the guyz..All this seem to have vanished from our day to day lives..Today mostly all emotions get fitted into mere space of 3 characters..Smiling,crying,frowning,etc could be shown with smileys available..Nowdays people tend to spend more time in checking their "News Feeds" containing nothingbut craps like"Hey everyone,I am no longer single,my status says that i am watching DDLJ and loving it,I wrote on XYZ's wall at 1:00 am,MR ABC uploaded 20 new photos of his,I had dhosa after ssssooooooooo lllooooooonnnnngggggg,I cooked biryani today,I am high on fever,tonight spain v/s portugal do wach it,roger out of wimbledonetc etc.."cmon man,where this will end!!..Instead of spending precious hours reading useless stuff on wall,do spend this hours withyour friends,relatives,ur family..Try to remain in touch physically and not virtually..Instead of getting up in the morning and checking your updates,do spend some quality timewith your mom..Have a word with her..Tell her how beautiful she looks today,tell her about your plans for today,and i bet you would get a more satisfactory feeling than checking your updates..Try it GUYZ.. Thats why my title of the blog has Al capital letters for physical emotions and not for virtual(answer you all know).

Quality Of Thoughts

What happens when opposite sex meet in public ? What do you think of them..? Yes,you guessed it right..Gossiping about them,making masaledar newz,spreading rumours of they seeing each other,talks such as "She used to be shy at character,but look her now,how firmly she is holding his hand.."These are the thoughts that first strikes our minds..As soon as one raeches home,he/she puts aside their imp works nd start phoning their friends,colleages,whomsoever they find and start discussing about the latest hot topic of dem seeing each other and pass their time..Then in the later stage,they feel guilty as to why they dis this?They then start realizing that publicizing their personal life was none of their business..They then start asking themselves the WHAT IF questions..
WHAT IF there was nothing cooking b/w them?WHAT IF they would have been just friends?WHAT IF they were just cousins?WHAT IF the same thing would have happened to me?
This is not our problem,the company we keep,the society we live in,the surrounding atmosphere are all resposible for our narrow-minded approach..This approach jus exihibits our shitty character,our inner soul,inner human being..I can still recollect one sentence that one mam had told to me in my early days of colledge.It goes like this:-"Whenever a boy and a girl talk on phone,or exchange notes,or meet in public ,people tend to take this relationship as a BF/GF relationship.I would jus call such people'sthinking as "BOHAT HI CHOTI SOCH HE"..and i firlmy agree with it..
So next time guyz and girls when you find a girl and a boy talking or even walking together,just askself one question."KYA MERI ITNI CHOTI SOCH HE?"..If ur inner soul reply YES,then you are free to go ahead with your thoughts and if NO,then you are doing a great deal ofgood to yourself,to your society and ofcourse to them(the ones meeting in public)..